It’s truly break-up , but if the issues are within you, then there’s less likelihood that you will be able to have a healthy relationship with anyone else either. Giving up on Love is easy instead of working on it.
But if you choose to work on Love, Love will work for you too.
So before you break-up, here is some Swadhyay ( self-analysis) that can save your
relationship.
• Do you give honest space to each other to express freely?
• Is either of you rushing the relationship taking away the trust?
• If you loved each other once – and seem to no longer be in love now – then is it even relationship issues or individual inability to stick to commitments.
• Do you give each other enough healthy quality time?
• Are you struggling to understand each other’s Love language?
• Do you understand each other’s childhood wounds and how to navigate compassionately with your partner?
• Do you trust outsiders more than each other ?
• Do you both take equal efforts to nourish the relationship constantly?
• Do you appreciate each other enough on a regular
• Are you both able to communicate the issues in a healthy way to each other?
• Have you taken ALL possible healthy efforts to fix the relationship like counselling, repair exercises, rekindling Love, vacation, meditating together, etc.?
• Have you been thinking of Break-Up in your mind for a while now, without talking about itwith your partner? What does this tell you about you?
AFFIRMATIONS:
● We are together in Mind – Body- Soul and every stone we stumble is only our Stepping Stone together
● We choose to see the best in each other, always.
● The ability to see the Best in each other Defines our Growth and Abundance everywhere.
● We realise no relationship is perfect so we give each other healthy space when triggered to reflect and heal.
● We may not agree everywhere but we are learning to honour each other’s boundaries.
● We are allowed to feel differently about the same situation so we respect each other’s feelings and understand them from a space of Love.
● We take pride in expressing gratitude and apologies, with sincerity, wherever it
benefits the relationship
P.S:
• Couple Affirmations Work only if both of you want to fix the issues in the Relationship
• Also, understand, if you are not healed – the Energy in your affirmations is of Wounds which is insufficient to yield long-term results. So heal your wounds simultaneously or before.
• If your partner is not ready – better to let them go and focus on self to attract healthy + fulfilling relationship for self.
• Try doing Affirmations for 5-10 minutes in the morning while holding hands / hugging each other for miraculous results.
• Couple Affirmations work best when both are aiming for Abundance in every area of their Life.
Couple Affirmations have proven to bring success in Career + Health as people are also healing individually, identifying their triggers and with Love the intensity of Healing magnifies.
Love is the bio-force of the universe. Healing in love and healing with love releases dopamine – which is also the hormone for confidence. This is why people who have a supporting, loving partner are often filled with confidence to conquer anything and are mostly happy achievers in their life like the Legendary footballer, Lionel Messi, iconic Miss World and Producer, Priyanka Chopra, etc.
You can also book personalised Yogic Counselling sessions with Ilashrei Anand to heal your relationship issues from root cause. We hope you take your well-being on priority.