Don’t be confused and self-analyse where the relationship is going. Always ask and get clarity.
Long-term relationships with those who are struggling with their own wounds of insecurity, trust, anger, commitment issues, etc and are not ready to heal them seldom flourishes. So choose wisely. Invest in those who acknowledge their shortcomings and are ready to take conscious efforts to heal them.
If your partner only points problems instead of solutions, exit while your self-worth is intact.
If you are unhappy in a relationship for too long, and your partner is not, take it as a red flag. Fix it or leave.
Being beautiful / rich will not make your partner stick to you. Your partner will stick to you because s/he loves you.
Don’t confuse basic humanity with love. Just because someone is good / kind to you doesn’t mean s/he loves you.
As a rule, appreciate each other everyday.Makes a relationship strong and healthy.
If you are the ignored one in the relationship, then it is likely you ignore yourself as well. Work on this to heal the relationship.
You will never ‘find’ time. You have to make time for your partner.
Nurture the friendship at the root of your relationship. No two couples can be happy if they are not good friends with each other first.
Learn to ask and listen. Stop assuming and mind-reading.
Be careful with who you give your heart. Always, always listen to your instinct. Also, be gentle with the hearts of others.
Exit from a relationship / friendship if you do not receive the same energy. You’re not a doormat.
Express early what you expect out of a relationship to your partner.
Never try to be the mother, therapist, care-taker of your partner. Such relationships seldom sustain long.
If you’re stuck in unsuccessful relationships one after the other, then take help of a Relationship counsellor to save yourself from further trauma.
You can also book personalised Relationship Counselling sessions with Ilashrei Anand to heal your issues from root cause. We hope you take your well-being on priority.