| Healthy Relationship | Unhealthy Relationship | Abusive Relationship |
| Giving enough space to partner’s feelings of discomfort and resolving them healthily. | Expecting a partner to figure out themselves how to deal with their feelings of discomfort without any efforts from their end. | Gaslighting your partner’s feelings of discomfort, saying things like, “you’re overthinking/ oversensitive.” — “everyone goes through it, no big deal.” — etc. |
| Seeing that there are flaws in both of them ( no body is perfect) and consciously choosing to work on them giving healthy feedback to each other | Only seeing flaws in the partner and constantly not working on their own spiritual, personality, mental development at all | Constantly blaming the partner for any issues in the relationship and attacking their self-worth |
| Apologising without ego and blame game followed with actions to gain trust back | Apologising but putting the blame on the partner by justifying their mistakes like, “but you triggered it”, “you also shouldn’t have done this.” etc | Only accusing, disrespecting, humiliating, gaslighting, getting violent-abusive, if shown their mistakes. Never sorry for their fault. |
| Making each other feel desired and honouring each other’s imperfections | Showing desire only when they need something OR constantly seeking desire attention from a partner. | Often making the partner feel undesirable by body-shaming, job-shaming, etc OR blaming – accusing the partner for not giving constant attention. |
Get immediate help if you’re in Abusive relationship. If you’re in Unhealthy relationship, choose to fix it asap, either with self or expert help via Relationship Counselling.
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