The Love that makes you go blind and keeps you in denial mode about how your partner/ relationship is toxic for your well-being, is not Love. Its a trauma-bond and choosing to stay in this without trying to fix the issues is actually a form of self-harm.
Loving someone so much that you forget to love yourself, start betraying your own loyalty towards self, your growth, values, well-being , is not Love, it’s a form of addiction most likely coming from codependency, abandonment, wounds.
Love requires effort and it is not always easy. But it becomes comforting if the efforts and compromises are mutual. No one person alone can take efforts and sustain the relationship. It’s a 1-sided relationship then and it will most likely show on that partner’s health sooner or later.
How deeply you love someone, can never change the other. The sooner you realise this, the better it will be for your well-being. How loyal and committed your partner is towards you depends on how loyal and committed they are towards making a better version of themselves.
Peace will not be found by being in love with your partner. Even if you find the best partner in the world, you can find impeccable support, care, respect with them, but finding peace is your own journey. However, a wrong partner is definitely capable of ruining your peace. So choose wisely.You can also book personalised Relationship Therapy sessions with Ilashrei Anand to heal your issues from root cause. Hope you take your well-being on priority.