First of all, stop entertaining hollow relationships that do not nourish you, emotionally,
spiritually, physically, mentally. There’s a whole lot of FWBs , Rebounds, ONS, Breakup Sex,
Hook-Ups, etc culture floating around, but that’s only causing more damage than healing.
The Divine Masculine Energy needs to feel nourished, so it can express, be vulnerable, give
and the Divine Feminine Energy needs to feel safe, to be able to trust – secure and
give-back. But casual intimacy doesn’t leave any space for nourishment or trust at a deeper
core. And we have the results, a society where both the Energies are wounded and
struggling to find their Identity – their Purpose leading to an array of Well-Being issues.
Be intimate (with consent ) when you want to express and feel the Sacred Energy of Divine
Love, honouring each other’s Soul, with respect and trust. Do not do it cause
- you / your partner is bored
- you want to numb feelings of your ex
- you / partner is irritated – frustrated – angry
- you / partner want to burn some fat your
- partner pushes you for it and you’re insecure of them leaving you
- everyone is having it
- its cool to go casual as YOLO
- no strings attached seems easier
- people misguide / coerce you
- And certainly not as an escape from your real life.
If you’re being sold the idea on the pretext that ” sex is the need of the body ” It certainly is
but ONLY when served in a healthy , honouring way and not when its used as a temporary
bandage to get over past break-up or a one-night stand cause it seems fun or easy. Just as
fruits are necessary for the Body, but if they are unripe – can be toxic, so is an intimate act
which hasn’t ripened to its stage of Divine Love.
But Physical Compatibility is more important than Emotional Compatibility, they say.
Emotional compatibility over Physical compatibility always wins. Because if people are
Physically compatible but emotionally disappointed in each other, their Soul will never
sanction them any intimacy with their partner. This is exactly the reason when couples have
heated arguments they do not even wish to sleep with each other on the same bed. Their
bodies automatically want to stay away from each other. But if they are Emotionally
Compatible, they’ll be able to trust and explore their desires smoothly with each other and
find places of common wilderness to enjoy together.
You can book personalised Yogic Counselling sessions with Ilashrei Anand to heal from the
root cause. We hope you take your well-being on priority.