Our planets are not controlling us.
Astrology or tarot helps us give an insight into the future so we can minimise / eliminate its impact but an event that has to occur, will.
This is why good astrologers will always guide not only with the malefic effects of any planet but also the positives of it. And all planets deliver both results.
Example: Astrology can tell someone that someone’s (X’s) Venus is malefic so they may have disturbed married life. But a good astrologer will also tell you, Venus’ malefic effects are strengthened by disrespecting, lying, cheating, adultery, laziness ,etc. You want a malefic Venus to not disturb your marriage, then abide by these virtues more than Puja , hawan, etc + don’t marry until your needs are verified.
Saturn makes people put blame for all their suffering on their Kundli. While Saturn is being harsh on you, are the other 8 planets on snooze? No. They too are delivering their results and if you focus on your strengths at this time, Saturn’s tough times will deliver extraordinary results like MS Dhoni winning both World Cup during Saturn’s Sade Sati.
Also, most emotional, mental health issues like Anxiety, Panic attacks, Depression, Bipolar, OCD, Borderline Personality disorder, stress, guilt, people-pleasing, ADHD, most cases of PTSD ( not C-PTSD) , eating disorders, addictions, substance abuse, are NOT a result of your planets but your choices. Seeking guidance in Astrology for these will not help.
Also, most of the relationships issues too are less controlled by planets but more by our choices and attitude. You’d be surprised how many divorce, breakup , cheating, etc charts I’ve read and only 1% or less I found being the victim of planetary play, rest all made choices that resulted in that suffering.
So choose wisely. There can be a few planets delivering less positive results for you but your choices can make even the planets delivering positive results into negative. And this folks, is the most common reason we suffer.
Humans seldom suffer cause of what happens, but cause we choose to not do anything about our issues instead blame Karma, kundli, ancestors, people etc for it. Use astrology, as a guidance, use your choices as the final result always.