7-Year Young says “ I need an Extra Mommy”
These are the words of a 7-year Young child, who took, their first session yesterday because
their Aunt (Maasi) figured something is not right after the kid started rejected any kind of
home cooked-food.
Kids often rebel as an expression of discomfort they’re facing – and mostly its cause of the
unhealthy relationship of their parents.
Save your kids’ therapy by healing yourself.
Me: Do you feel safe at home?
Child: I get food
Me: Do you feel mom-dad love each other?
Child: Mommy makes food for daddy even when she is crying and dad eats it
Me: And how does Daddy show his love to Mom?
Child: Daddy will not let mommy go out alone after 6 pm
Me: Do you know what success is?
Child: When I get more marks than my cousins
Me: Do you know what is failure?
Child: when i do not talk about mommy daddy to my friends or their friends
Me: Do you know who friends are ?
Child: people who can come home but we cannot tell them anything about home
Me: Do you know what pain is?
Child: when i feel bad and i cry in toilet
Me: When do you cry in toilet or feel bad
Child: When everyone shouts at my mom
Me: Do you know what is happiness?
Child: When i do whatever i want
Me: What is one thing you want to do the most
Child: Get an extra mummy
Me: Why do you want an extra mummy
Child: Everyone says mummy is not doing enough so if one more mummy comes just to do
everything everyone wants at home then my mummy will be enough for all
Me: Do you know what is punishment
Child: When me and Mommy cannot sleep on bed with Daddy
Me: why did you tell Mom that nothing is wrong when she asked you?
Child: Because Mommy says the same to Daddy
May parents realise that they are not alone living the unhealthy marriage – their kids are
living it too and it will certainly impact the kid’s present, future , the career – partner they
choose, their self- worth, their confidence , and most primarily their health.
If you’re in one such relationship, please fix it or get help immediately.
You can book personalised Yogic Counselling sessions with Ilashrei Anand to heal you or
your child from the root cause. We hope you take your ( and kids’ ) well-being on priority.