● You’re constantly interrupting me as I speak. I choose to leave you alone and be a part of this conversation only when you’re ready to listen.
● Be aware, I will not entertain your abusive / inappropriate behaviour and can also take legal actions if needed.
● I don’t think you are able to respect that, do not appreciate you talking to me like this. So I will only speak to you now when you can talk to me in a healthier way.
● I appreciate you being concerned about my marriage but marriage is a very personal choice and currently I’m not comfortable discussing it.
● I know you want to guide me with your experience but I’d like to make my own
decisions and be responsible for my own choices and their outcomes.
● I would appreciate it if you can support me whether you agree with me or not, but if you cannot support me, I expect you to not discourage me or create more obstacles for me as a family / friend.
● No.
● I’m not comfortable.
● I know I said yes, but now I won’t be able to do your work as I don’t think I am available / comfortable to do it.
● You’re constantly ignoring what I am saying so I’m exiting this one-sided conversation.
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